最理想的生活：干净的圈子，规律的生活，中意的人
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17.1429px;line-height: 25.6px;text-align: right;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(127, 127, 127);line-height: 25.6px;font-size: 13px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">来源/京博国学（ID：jingboguoxue）</span></p><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">人这一辈子，最理想的生活大概是：朋友不需太多，二三好友足矣；生活无需波澜壮阔，平淡有意义才是真；爱情也不必轰轰烈烈，一生一世得一人便是圆满。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="white-space: normal;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" 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8px;margin-left: 8px;white-space: normal;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: 微软雅黑;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;white-space: normal;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: 微软雅黑;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;text-align:="" justify;color:="" rgb(171,="" 25,="" 66);"="">干净的圈子</span></strong><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">有研究表明，人一辈子社交的范围其实很小，因为人类智力将允许人类拥有稳定社交圈子的人数是150人。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">而在这150人中，能给你锦上添花的人很多。但当你真的遇到困难需要帮助时，能够雪中送炭的人寥寥无几，这就是人性使然。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">两三知心好友，胜过万千泛泛之交。所以说，你认识多少人根本没有意义，把无关紧要的人从圈子里剔除，专心地去维护真正的益友，才是真正懂得生活的人。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">孔子讲：“君子矜而不争，群而不党。”</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">周国平则说：我心目中的朋友，既非泛泛之交的熟人，也不必是心心相印的恋人，程度当在两者之间。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">奔着互相利用而结成的圈子，易结，也易散。真正的圈子，是因为你的美好接受你，而不是因为你有利用价值才将你纳入。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">凤凰卫视主持人窦文涛，曾主持了19年的“锵锵三人行”，访谈的嘉宾遍布学界、商界、演艺界的各色名流。按理说，他应该有一个特别庞大的圈子，让他一天到晚混溺其中。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">然而窦文涛除了做电视节目，更多时候他是个彻头彻尾的“宅男”，除非迫不得已外出，“可以两周不出门，突然要去邻居家吃个饭，都激动得脸红心跳。”</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">窦文涛没有朋友吗？当然不是。他曾说：“朋友除了交情之外，还有讲究，这个很重要。所谓讲究，你可以理解成品味、才学、投缘、谈吐，它是讲究。这种感觉不是交情能代替的。”</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">而庆幸的是，他的朋友们几乎都在同一小区。楼上楼下，方圆一里，浓缩成他的“私北京”，“虽彼此一月不联系，心里也踏实。”</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">圈子干净了，你的生活也就轻松了。给自己的圈子做减法，跟低质量的社交说再见，就是给自己的人生做加法。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">圈子大不大不重要，重要的在于是否干净。</span></strong></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><img class="rich_pages" data-ratio="0.4255555555555556" data-s="300,640" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FTg3OEDW5tUJ5agsFQTNjyiahbUVeSfoTrqvwsd9dGITsettoYM7U50QO06QSefyOwLHcZg5KaDhS6FbYwHmFjiaQ%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="900" style="width:100%"></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><br></section><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="white-space: normal;max-width: 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break-word="" !important;"="">2</section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;white-space: normal;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: 微软雅黑;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;white-space: normal;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: 微软雅黑;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;text-align:="" justify;color:="" rgb(171,="" 25,="" 66);"="">规律的生活</span></strong><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">规律的生活，可能容易让人想到退休老人，有些单调，不够“刺激”、不够“酷炫”。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">但其实，天体运行，万物生长，社会发展都有规律，人的生活也要有规律。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">老子说：“人法地，地法天，天法道，道法自然。”</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">当人与天地规律作用顺应和合时，就叫“天人合一”。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">举个简单的例子，起居有常，作息规律，不暴饮暴食，坚持适当锻炼，身体就会处于有活力的状态。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">晨昏颠倒，吃饭时间不固定，要玩就玩个通宵，不仅伤害了自己身体，这些也是缺乏自制力的表现。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">生活有规律的人，一定很自律。</span></strong></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">步入花甲之年，管理万达如此庞大的企业，王健林表现出的旺盛精力令身边的人都觉得惊奇。这还是得益于军旅生涯。他的生活习惯，一直规律到近乎严苛。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">王健林在接受采访时曾表示，当兵时，5点半就要吹号起床，晚上9点就寝睡觉。现在“6点前一定要起来，但睡觉可能会11点了。没有什么夜生活，不抽烟、不喝酒。生活比较有规律，这可能是我保持精力旺盛的原因。”</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">拥有规律的生活是从认真地对待生活中的每一个细节开始：何时起床，何时就寝；何时吃饭，何时休息；何时运动，何时娱乐；都养成良好的习惯。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">当这种习惯变成自然时，你会深切地感受到，每天的生活虽然平淡无奇，却都能让你心神愉悦。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 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style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">要是问起，最好的爱情是什么样子的？</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">有人说，是提到对方的名字就会心一笑；有人说，是想到对方的样子就心中一暖；还有人说，是你知我冷暖，我懂你悲欢。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">对于这个问题，几个月前朋友圈刷屏的一张照片能给我们最佳的答案。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"> </span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">70多岁的彭女士和老伴高先生，是一对恩爱57年的伉俪。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">彭女士小脑出血，经抢救刚恢复意识，便请求去见还在昏迷的老伴最后一面……</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">在ICU病房里，彭女士眼神中满是深情。她牵起爱人的手，呼唤着“老头子，老头子……”</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">这是一次不到10分钟的见面，就在这短短的时间里，有最留恋的凝望，也有最难舍的一次牵手。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br></span></section><p style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">爱情的最好境界：</span><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">虽已白发苍苍，依然执手相视，如果今生已无时日在一起，那么来世愿再相伴一生。</span></strong></p>
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